I said that I would, even though I haven't, because pretty much any topic is something to explore if it's on my mind and seems important. For whatever reason, my sexuality is one of the few aspects of my life that doesn't trigger toxic shame. And for what it's worth, I don't think there is anything wrong with fantasizing about somebody besides one's spouse. You are not defined by your thoughts, including your sexual thoughts. Thoughts and actions are very different things.
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I do want to work on this. It's one of the aspects of my life that really bothers me. If I can learn to accept myself and my past, it could bring so much relief.
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That seems like a good reason to discuss it!