I said other because it's not clear cut for me. I HAVE shared certain aspects, mainly in connection with sexuality (I consider myself heterosexual in life but have some lesbian fantasies), but not in any detail at all, only that I've sometimes watched videos of lesbian stuff. The other issue for me is that I'm attracted to my T and thoughts of her sometimes pop into my mind, but I feel totally unable to share that and honestly don't think I could. Like Stopdog indicated, I think I'd have to assess whether it would be helpful to share or just make things more complicated.