Children that young do not understand a lot of things about life and relationships. You are not in a position right now to make changes. I am sorry that you are so physically dependent right now. It’s an awful feeling to be dependent on someone that is so selfish. Sounds like he is looking for a woman he can live off of and can feed his ego.

He doesn’t have the capacity to respect and care about you. Often people get stuck in relations that are unhealthy and they keep hoping the partner will change. Most of the time a person doesn’t change, but just gets better at BSing.

What you have to do is focus on doing whatever it takes to regain your health and have a roof over your head for yourself and your children. Are you able to get financial help for being disabled?