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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Children that young do not understand a lot of things about life and relationships. You are not in a position right now to make changes. I am sorry that you are so physically dependent right now. It’s an awful feeling to be dependent on someone that is so selfish. Sounds like he is looking for a woman he can live off of and can feed his ego.
He doesn’t have the capacity to respect and care about you. Often people get stuck in relations that are unhealthy and they keep hoping the partner will change. Most of the time a person doesn’t change, but just gets better at BSing.
What you have to do is focus on doing whatever it takes to regain your health and have a roof over your head for yourself and your children. Are you able to get financial help for being disabled?
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I have been on disability since 2002 but what I get is not enough to pay all the bills. He said when he moves he will continue to pay to keep us as we are used to and in this house. Only thing is I don't see how he can afford to do both so I have a feeling we are going to have to coexist for a long time and that is what I am really struggling with all the time. It's so hard to be this upset and depressed and have that person right next to you everyday. I wouldn't wish this situation on anyone. We haven't even told anyone yet since he can't move out for a while everyone thinks things are normal. So basically we are just pretending around everyone.
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