Hi! Thanks for the reply.

Yup im fine occasionally i guess cause i know even before we started dating he had this "stash" which i thought was normal for men? Didnt really bother me before. I guess the game changer was the watching live and paying for the rooms? Yes i am definitely not fine when he pays for something because it's all over the internet free, i dont see any reason for you to pay? Unless there's emotion involved? Or am i just thinking like a woman, cause that's how it is with us? Geez im like a ping pong ball, going back and forth in my head thinking it's a big deal, then it's not, then it is, then it's not.