Ok. I see. I am just saying you don’t need to defend yourself or explain when you leave jobs (as tempting as it is) especially if you still want good references and your reasons are because company sucks. People leave jobs all the time.

But that’s too late. You already said it. You just have to decide what’s important to defend yourself and let them have it or to have good references.

Sometimes telling the truth is more important and sometimes leaving on good terms is. It really depends on particular circumstances.

Perhaps I didn’t say it right that you have to stop worrying. I meant not worry after the fact. You already said all that amd can’t go back.

I meant more like if you want good reference and not sure you can get it, then don’t tell your reasons for leaving. Otherwise it’s worrying after the fact when you can’t change it

I’d now focus on starting a new job in a positive mood and forget about this. Maybe just be extra productive next two weeks and leave them with good impression