Thank you so much for.the reply. Ok sorry, so to clarify, it's his personal laptop. We just use it for our child's online school, so i had to access my gmail there to get the zoom links. I just shared, cause that's how i found the receipts for the payments to the women, while.i was signing in, you know there's this tab/list of accounts signed in, and one was a completely different alias. So apparently that's his other persona. I dont know, i guess im still confused at this point as to accepting/forgiving him. Geez im a complete.mess, one minute im leaving him, the other, thinks im over reacting. This is giving me extreme anxiety and depression. I keep having different scenarios in my head every hour.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
I’d not worry about what other men do every day. Mine doesn’t. But it’s neither here nor there. Yours sounds like he really wants to keep doing it. He just hides it better. Him paying money to direct interact with women would fall into cheating for me. Plus using porn on child’s computer falls into child neglect and abuse for me. I’d sure not want more kids with him and him having all this going on in the same house with me.
You have to decide what’s acceptable for you.
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