Yep,I can understand you,down and lonely. My freeze response leaves me frustrated and unjustified specially when I didn't do anything to warrant other's anger.When others use me just to unload for no apparent reason.And the anger that results in me because of unjust behaviour of others,I become responsible for processing in a healthy way.I also do not use others to unload my anger. It really is a hard work trying to process our own negative emotions in a healthy manner and not to use people as proxies.