About money: it does not buy happiness in my experience. My relationship with H was at its worst when we had money. Now there's a lot of stress and anxiety about how we will survive, but we're actually a lot happier. H still spends like we have money. Like, sigh, he's going to trade in his car again for a Tesla again. But it will be about the same price minus the down-payment which isn't too high. Still, we're trying to cut bills, cook more, spend less, etc. And I'd say our relationship is pretty good.