Hi. My name is Shawna. I am 46 and have been married for 9 years. On Christmas Eve, I caught my husband sending sexual texts to a woman. I kicked him out that night. He apologized and begged me to forgive him and go to counseling. I filed for divorce the Monday after Christmas. This wasn't the first time I caught him chatting with women and making plans to hook up with them. I found a way to tap into his whatsapp account and was able to see ongoing conversations between him and a women he actually introduced me to before we were married. Turns out she has been a side piece for years. I have since found out that he uses apps to find random women to have sex with. I know divorcing him is the right thing for me, but I'm literally sick over it.