We are total strangers on here so we can’t tell you what to accept. You have to decide yourself

It’s not even about forgiveness. He is who he is. Sure people change but most of the time people tell us who they are and we should believe them.

If you want a man who doesn’t pay women for sex then you should be with a man who doesn’t do that. Different type of a man.

It’s not like changing where he puts dirty socks: hamper or laundry room, that kind of thing people can change and compromise on.

Trying to change his fundamental character traits and life style of a man who lies and enjoys to pay for sex (those private rooms with individual women is eventually paying for sex) is entirely difffernt thing.

In addition those women he’s watching might be trafficked, coerced into this line of work, drugged up (most women in sex work industry-and I know a few irl-have to be intoxicated in order to do all this, they also could be minors. He might be contributing to all these potentially criminal activities

It doesn’t matter whose laptop it is. Your child uses it for school. When you say he is a great father., I really question it. Clearly his child doesn’t come first, he or she not above porn on priorities list