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Originally Posted by eskielover
I only directed my yelling at the person (my now ex thank heavens) who made me angry. I never directed it at anyone else....but I know many people do. Sadly the yelling at him was justified. He never ever had listened, he never understood (obvious because he never handled things without making a worse mess to clean up) & it was the only way to even get his attention. It also served to let off my steam like a pressure cooker or I really would have exploded. Best thing I did was finally walk (run) away when I could. Sad when life (a person) pushes us to that point.
Not appropriate in a work environment & it took years of pushing to push me to that point that actually started in my childhood environment & ended when I left it from my marriage.
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Yeah I never redirect my anger at other people, only the person who deserves it. I don’t like it when people do it to me so I don’t do it to others, it's unfair to yell at someone who didn’t do anything. It comes off as if they’re looking for reasons to yell, which can be the case at times. Yeah sounds like your husband deserved it, glad you're out of that situation.