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Originally Posted by Lisalincoln
Hi! Thanks for the reply.
Yup im fine occasionally i guess cause i know even before we started dating he had this "stash" which i thought was normal for men? Didnt really bother me before. I guess the game changer was the watching live and paying for the rooms? Yes i am definitely not fine when he pays for something because it's all over the internet free, i dont see any reason for you to pay? Unless there's emotion involved? Or am i just thinking like a woman, cause that's how it is with us? Geez im like a ping pong ball, going back and forth in my head thinking it's a big deal, then it's not, then it is, then it's not.
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Pretty sure emotion is not involved in this scenario.
Whatever extra it is he is getting from the porn that he paid for, it's not about emotions.
But you are right with the concern that it may evolve into paying for actual prostitutes in the end.
My suggestion: Find out what he would need in real life that would satisfy his needs for sex enough, without having to go to prostitutes.
Like, what kind of sex he'd like with you, and if you can find a way to give that to him, if he can also adjust to you to make you comfortable with it and so on.
Unless he's the kind of man that just has to cheat because they like variety that much. Those exist too.