I think most here would agree that my relationship with my T really pushes what is and is not OK between a T and a client. So… IMO….
YES these would be red flags for me even though my T and I do some of them but there are several that T would never do!
There is another big difference too… it seems like with your question you are OK with some of them, iffy on others and maybe not OK on some. If I was uncomfortable or questioning anything with my T it would absolutely stop until we worked out what I am comfortable with.

Yes, you are attached. I would guess that you have a background where your boundaries either were ignored or intentionally violated. So having your boundaries ignored might be far more comfortable than the risk of telling T how they make you feel. It would also make it far more comfortable (familiar) to stay than to change Ts and venture into the unknown.

Trust yourself. You are asking the question for a reason.