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Old Jan 24, 2022, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Etcetera1 View Post
Pretty sure emotion is not involved in this scenario.

Whatever extra it is he is getting from the porn that he paid for, it's not about emotions.

But you are right with the concern that it may evolve into paying for actual prostitutes in the end.

My suggestion: Find out what he would need in real life that would satisfy his needs for sex enough, without having to go to prostitutes.

Like, what kind of sex he'd like with you, and if you can find a way to give that to him, if he can also adjust to you to make you comfortable with it and so on.

Unless he's the kind of man that just has to cheat because they like variety that much. Those exist too.
Typically obsession with porn and going to prostitutes has nothing to do with what kind of sex they get in real life. Woman providing a man with type of sex he watches in porn or has with prostitutes isn’t a solution. Those are two different things.

It’s kind of implying that it’s her fault he does all that.