Thanks Fuzzy and dinos - I can feel owlet taking in every word behind my eyes. it helps her to read these, acknowledging that she did nothing wrong in talking with t. it has taken 5 years to get to this point (talking as much as she did). and this is alo the first time there was no SI from the destructive parts after her sharing. owlet is pressing on my mind (?) with a headache, trying to reach, to touch the words here , to make them real, to help her get out of the dungeon she's been in so long.