He knows,and he still does it.Looks like he is disrespectful of your needs.That reminded me of one of my uncle.He knew loud noises irritated me and used to play rock band loud very early in the mornings while we got together during holidays.It was so loud that the walls used to shake.I tried hard not to complain because nobody had complained. I always wondered if it was intentional on his part.Later I simply stopped visiting them.In your case it's your partner. I understand how you feel.Hugs.