I can't think of phrases that bother me or that I hate. Now there are many words she says that make me cringe: pleasure, trauma, etc. Pleasure is a hard topic for me. It makes me uncomfortable. And the word trauma is hard because I'm not sure if that word applies to me. There's also a few sex words, one of which is a slang, and it's like nails on a chalkboard when I hear it.

Eta: the word nurture! Feels embarrassing to me.