Sara I reread the original post and words and phrases stood out to me. “My impression was”, “to me it means”, “I truly believe”, “for me” etc

It appears that’s not necessarily the therapist is unauthentic but rather that you personally have your own ideas how the therapist must be and what things must be: believe in God means not wanting money etc

But those things are our own projections and assumptions, not necessarily reality.

I also wonder about your perception of money and ideas about what money should be spent on. There are people who never eat out but they buy nice clothes. There are people who have no interest in clothes but like nice vehicles et Some people save all their money for old age. Those are individual preferences. What do you believe therapists (and people in general) should be spending their money on?