Thanks ElectricManatee, it is exactly as you describe. My baby will sleep in his pram if I get the timing right but not for long. It is my first baby so quite a shock. I think I will have to seek some help for my pain, it has been unbearable today. I'm afraid they will just tell me to lose weight, I know this would probably help but the more I try the heavier I seem to get.

Seeing T again on Monday so will emphasise my struggles a bit more then. He doesn't have children so I'm not sure he really gets what I'm on about? Therapy has become quite a pronounced part of my week now it's one of the only hours I am baby free. Thank you for the link I will check it out.