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Originally Posted by Etcetera1
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Well one major reason why I'm asking these questions is to try and feel the attitudes he has. Because, I need to know what a healthy vs unhealthy relationship FEELS like. It's a long-standing problem in my life that I am working on.
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Youre looking on the wrong side of the street - the GOOD relationships are over there! This side of the street holds Al Capones secret safe - its empty. Nothing to see here. Nothing you learn learn here will help you have a good relationship.
A good relationship is all on YOU. In the sense of say a tennis match. Youre are right now playing with someone who is not playing at the same level as you, for whatever reason. Does the reason really matter? Cant or wont? I used to believe it was "won't" and i just had to break thru something - but honestly, behind their won't is can't.