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Originally Posted by BigBubba
"I don't know anything about you". "You don't want to talk about yourself" - these two I've heard too many times recently.
What would YOU like to know about, so to speak, "a newcomer"? Let's say all doors are open in regards to where it leads. That person may become just someone you've exchanged handshakes with, or a friend, or a boyfriend/girlfriend, whatever. I mean the beginning. How does it look like?
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If someone said that to me, I’d say “oh, I’m open. What would you like to know?” and then answer as you’re comfortable doing.
Things I like to know about people is: their hobbies, where they’re from, how long they’ve been doing what they’re doing, what they were doing before that.
Where they’ve traveled to, I guess, because I have heard some good stories.
I think if people want to know you, there’s the basics like whether you’re married, kids, pets, etc.