Hello. I am going through a divorce too. I wasn’t expecting it and feel very blindsided. I am worried it is going to get nasty and I have a child with Autism that I am trying to protect. I am happy to chat if you need someone to talk to. No one I know is going through these issues so it’s really hard for them to understand the ups and downs. I know my relationship isn’t good so I don’t know what I really want to save. I think just the fear of change and the unknown. It is very scary.