I am sorry you are going through this. I have been with my husband since I was 13 and he just asked me for a divorce. We have a five year old with Autism and work different hours to accommodate her needs. We started leading very separate lives and the intimacy suffered. He also provides zero emotional support and his response is “it will be fine” for everything. He wants to go into mediation soon and not even look at separating first. He tells me there is no one else and I can account for his time so I have no idea. I’m just really scared of being alone. I’ve been with him for so long, but we grew into different people. I told him I would work on the intimacy and we could do therapy, but he wants no part of it. We are still in the same house and it is so awkward. He is so cold to me now. I have not been physically into him for so long and I’m sure this is best for me to. I just feel so lost and confused.