Hello. I'm not even sure if this is the place to go for help or advice. I'm considering divorce and it's such a scary process. Is a loveless marriage even a marriage? We've been married for over 19yrs and have 4 kids together. But I've come to this realization that we're incompatible. The last two years have been awkward living in the same household for us. I remained in this relationship out of convenient. I want a divorce but I'm afraid I have no means to support myself and the children if we divorce.