Hi. Ive been married over 19years with 4 children. The last two years have proved we are incompatible. I want a divorce because I believe a loveless marriage isn't really a marriage. I've always been a SAHparent. I feel that I continued to remain in this marriage out of convenient and financial support. But I dont like the feeling of waking up to a loveless marriage where we can't communicate. Counseling won't help since we both have different point of view...unfortunately, the pandemic and politics can do this much damage.

I want a divorce but I'm afraid of the unknown aftermath. I'm looking into going back to school so that I can get a job after the divorce. But it feels like I'm stuck in this marriage until I graduate. And then I get depressed just thinking about how stuck I am and how I can't escape.

Any advice appreciated.