Hmph. I find myself wanting to make you worry about me. Which is odd since I find your nagging so irksome. But you actually have two different attitudes when you're worried. The first one is the one that reminds me of my parent and is so irritating - the doom and gloom, nagging, overreacting part of you. You do this when you're worried about what I'm not doing.

When I'm doing something you are worried about, you act differently. Still disapproving but somehow different.

Maybe it's not so much wanting to make you worry about me as just doing something you don't like. Proving that there's nothing you can do about it and I haven't been brainwashed into just going along with whatever you say.