No, you did not expect too much...

They acted pretty poorly. First that temp T who can only see you around easter, I mean what the heck!? I would also have assumed she would find a location and fit me in, asap not months away. To me it shows lack of caring. Secondly, J just dropped you too. That is a pretty pathetic move from her. She can't even help you now?! It's too much for her to pull her finger out and help someone she made promises to. Add further lack of ethical responsibility by not answering as well.

I am sorry you are struggling to find a T but frankly, you deserve better than these two miscreants. Shame on them.