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Originally Posted by velcro003
I know I SHOULD talk to her about it, but there is no way I can. At least not right now. I don’t know what she feels about attachment, though she has written me a note to keep at home that says she is happy to keep working with me, and let me take home some pretty tissue paper from her office to use in an art project. So that seems like she is ok with attachment, but I don’t know.
We haven’t talked much about our relationship, with the exception of me always afraid she is sick of me/that i am too much. She (so far) has always reassured me that she isn’t sick of me/I am not too much. I think that is about as far as I can go to telling her that I feel quite attached.
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This whole bit of information tells me that she already knows about your feelings and is okay with them. Your reactions to her and to your own intense feelings are really normal for somebody with attachment things up work through. I think the chances of her being surprised or upset if you talk to her about your feelings are vanishingly small.