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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Hugs if wanted, Waterbear. I agree that you're not expecting too much. With the T who can't see you until Easter--is that because the space isn't available until then or because she's that booked up? Not that either are OK. But if it's the second one, could you maybe get on a cancellation list or wait list while searching for another T? Though if she's that booked, she's probably not a good option anyway...
I definitely think that both should have gotten back to you. How long ago did you write to them? Is it possible that one or both are on vacation?
I hope you're able to find someone who can work with you. For the T's you've looked into who do regular "talk therapy," have you specifically asked if they could do the sort of therapy you'd want? It could be that they may be willing.
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Thanks Lonesome. It is because she is fully booked in the new venue. She took on additional clients despite me telling her I would be in touch. I guess maybe it was my fault for saying "probably in the New Year, possibly closer to Spring" and for that reason the fact that she is fully booked isn't as big a deal as the fact that she couldn't even be bothered to reply to me. I know she wasn't on leave because she had just returned (the first email I sent went unanswered for a week and she explained that was because she had just returned from a break). I guess some other event could have occurred that means she can't reply, who knows. I am tempted to ask her to put me on the list for when she does become available, but to be honest I am not sure now whether I could trust her. The only reason I would want to see her is because she makes me so angry, and anger is the thing that needs to be brought out and worked on. But is that the right way of doing it??
I truly thought J would have responded, but I guess she has had enough of me now. I don't want to leave things like this, but I am not sure what choice I have. I could write again I suppose, nothing left to lose??