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Originally Posted by Omers
To me it sounds like the T from the charity may have been getting pressure from the charity to cut things off. At least that is my hope. I can’t imagine her being so caring and helpful and then not. I also had a T at one point working for a place that subsidized the costs of therapy. Their opinions and agendas definitely impacted my therapy negatively.
The other one… this may sound harsh but if she isn’t going to keep space for you (or at least follow up before filling her calendar… then perhaps it is better that things end sooner rather than later. I know I wouldn’t want to work with her from what little you shared.
I wish you luck finding the right T… it is SO hard and there are so many bad and useless ones out there… just remember you are worth the effort it takes to find the right person to work with!
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Thanks for reading my post Omers, and replying. If she was just with the charity I would totally see that, but she also works privately and it was through her private practice that I saw her twice last summer, so sadly I know that is not a factor here. I guess she has just had enough of me now. I am sorry you suffered at the hands of the reduced rate therapy thing, the nuances of it all can truly suck.
And yeah, thank you, I totally hear what you are saying about the other T. The only reason I am tempted to go see her after Easter is because she brings out the anger in me. That and the fact that actually, thinking about it, she did seem technically.... competent? In an incompetent kind of way? VERY hard to explain, but something about her seemed really right, whilst at the same time seeming so wrong.
Thank you. The therapy search is excruciatingly difficult, for me. I wonder whether I am being too picky, but then something in me says "NO, you are just wanting to find the right thing for you". I know it is out there, because I went through all of this when I was looking for K, and we did such good work together because I stuck to my guns. I just don't know how much fight I have left in me, and I don't think it was too much to ask for a little moral support from someone (J) who I genuinely believed gave a s**t.