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Originally Posted by Rive.
What if your therapist had another regular source of income that paid handsomely so they're not dependent on therapy money, per se. Then they upped their rate (significant increase) & would not budge on that.
Would that change in terms of your belief(s) regarding their caring or not caring and/or how you may feel about them?
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I would assume that they've changed their rate for all of their clients. So I would not take it personally. So I would not have any changed feelings or beliefs about their level of caring.
Without knowing their exact reason for changing their rates, I would not have any further opinions or feelings on the whole. Who on earth would know anyway what the reason is. The actual reason may be a private matter, as well. And definitely not to do with me.
I would ignore it completely as far as the personal relationship itself and related feelings, really. I would just decide if I'm able & willing to pay the extra rate.
A couple of things I thought of that would make the situation realistic enough (& also ofc assuming that the new rates are not out of touch with the market):
- Adjusting very outdated rates to inflation
- Having acquired new qualification, with better services and expertise offered
- God knows what private reasons
A (rhetorical) question too. How would I know so much about their additional source of income? If I somehow know so much about the financial situation of the therapist, that already sounds like a "relationship" that I would run from far and fast. There is a reason why I do not involve myself in therapy much now.