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Old Feb 05, 2022, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
No, you did not offend me. I have a hard time with this and what has been hard for me is experiencing a sister that wanted me to suffer. It gave her pleasure and she did some very down right cruel things that traumatized me.

I do not understand the joy and satisfaction toxic people experience when they want another to hurt.
Some things I will never understand. Acknowledging that fact & accepting it, is a good thing cause then we don't get stuck there & can go on.

Some people will hurt anyone that gets in the way of their agenda. If it wasn't you, it would have been who ever else was in her way. The things I found have been most traumatic in my life are the things where I had initial expectations & they didn't go that way but went against those expectations in a very hurtful way. Seems like expectations magnified the trauma & made it much worse.
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