So true.Some things are hard to forgive.IMO,the hurt that was unintentional,if you know what I mean,like a person didn't do or say things with the intent to hurt others,but the others got hurt anyways,those are easy to forgive.In most instances the person apologizes and makes changes in their own behaviors.To err is human and those acts or words should be forgiven.But when things are said and done knowingly with cruel intent to harm then how can they be forgiven??It's not that easy.How can one forgive the predators?. What is more important in these scenarios is to forgive ourselves for trusting the perps.We should forgive ourselves for not being more protective of ourselves and for being that naive.