I'm sorry to hear you had that bad experience and others before it. It stings when the very places we reach out to for help are negative. I've had a variety of experiences in ZOOM support groups. I tried one but found it wasn't facilitated properly when an older man made a sexual innuendo and he wasn't rebuked for it. The one i do attend has more active, better trained facilitators and the rules are clearer and enforced. Even then the experience is uneven tho as sometimes people don't make sense or are repellent.