I need a lot of space and mostly liked to be single. I am married now though and I still need way more space than my husband, but I let him know that as soon as we got serous, he already figured it early on anyways. I need space. That’s ok. We compromise.

There’s one more thing to think about. Sex is important, however often times the most intense sex people have with very wrong partners. Too late at night to go into a psychology of it but there’s truth to it.

As about cuddling, I’d not cuddle someone I’ve met twice. I am not surprised you didn’t want to cuddle on a second dare. It’s awkward. You don’t know him, not in love, not even deep kind of friendship. You aren’t feeling nothing for him, well why would you? Of course initial attraction has to be there. I assume there was but other than that he is a stranger

Having said that, this guy might be all wrong for you. Often when you know, you know. If you feel it’s all wrong, then why bother. Life is too short for wrong people