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the only reason i said to i would deal with everything on my own is because i thought everybody was sick of me. i just dont know what to think about anything anymore. i'm confused. i post a 'im sorry' thread and hardly anybody responds.
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There is a post somewhere from a member named Dexter that discusses the reasons why a post may not receive the desired response. There are many reasons, and one very important thing to note is that a lot of folks here work. We don't get on until after work. Personally, I could lose my job if I were here during work. I come here after work or on my days off. I love this place...but not enough to do that.
I know you are worried about your mom. I would be too! Honestly, an illness with my mother would upset me a lot! I can imagine the hurt you are in right now. It can't be fun.
I think the resistance you are experiencing is due to the number of "last posts" you've made. There have been several lately. It seems like you are very upset and need to see someone. It doesn't seem that you can handle this yourself anymore. JMO
Like someone said, if you are planning to leave, people here tend to just leave --no warning. For some, it's a case of the little boy who cried wolf. I personally make it a point not to say I am going to leave unless I mean to do it. People here take things seriously. Causing these emotions drains others as well as yourself.
I hope you stay.
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