I've been married for a year and I am applying for divorce.. Too many things that went wrong with my marriage, and its at an unsalvageable point. How do I deal with the uncertainty that comes? Like this is simultaneously the best thing and the worst thing happening to me. Best thing because I have a newfound sense of freedom; worst thing because I had a plan and now its on fire. For the first time in my life, i dont know what I am going to do next year.. I have a job which is probably the best thing that happened to me. But societal expectations are bad. People will be like "oh you are young, why dont you get married again". I am terrified of even meeting anyone new at this point.. Its like i cant trust myself anymore. Is this normal? Does everyone go through this?