My sister too texted me like this,but more of in a passive aggressive way,I actually took her bait once.She started texting me in a rude way that I need to communicate more frequently with some of others.Now a days I am on a quest to relearn about toxic relationships, part of which is to grey rock some of them.I cannot take the toxicity anymore.I think they all are talking behind my back, about how I am not in contact with them.After I put up a boundary with my sibling,she started argumentative texts about these other relatives and that I was ghosting them.It was none of her business actually. I texted back and forth trying to convince her logically.She was angry and rude to the point that she just tried to blame and shame me for no reason.I realised she was guilttripping me and indirectly was presenting her case too.I backed off.I saw no reason to keep trying to make her understand.She sent me some angry emojis, but I kept quiet. After a couple of weeks she texted if I was doing ok?I answered in short ..yes..She again texted after a week if I was ok.I again texted just yes.After doing the same for months,she started some hovering. She tried to make me emotional by texting some childhood things where I was actually mothering her.It looked like she was sending a message to me to go back to my original self.Passionate,empathic sister who always loved and protected her,no matter what.What did my original self got me so far?? Abuse,rudeness,disrespect. Time for change now.I am not a person who keeps grudges. I will not tolerate abuse anymore.So after she tried bread crumbing me ,I just grey rocked. They lost a person who could love them unconditionally.