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Old Feb 08, 2022, 05:57 PM
Lostislost Lostislost is offline
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Originally Posted by SummerTime12 View Post
That makes sense. The result is what affects you today so working through that seems like a good idea. I tend to shut down and get worse too. I dissociate and often get really suicidal and do impulsive things when specifics are mentioned. Despite this, I still have this urge to tell someone the details of my trauma and just get it out there. When you say you get worse, what do you mean by that?
The same as you said really, I dissociate more, my inner critics come out and terrorise me for sharing the details with my therapist, I find I can't stop thinking about the things that happened... Like I breathed life into them again by saying it out loud. Self harm, using anything I could to escape eg. drugs or sex. The last year I haven't been able to talk about any specific trauma as I've had a baby and really don't want to dissociate or self harm. I just tell my therapist I can't talk about it right now.
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