I'm trying to figure out the diffrence between giving you more chances and giving you too much credit and too many excuses. The first time when you said I'm "pretty" passable that got me upset but I moved past it. Although you did make some other comments after that one that were bordering on passing comments. Which I don't like. And I still glance at my eyes every once in awhile to see if I am seeing what you are talking about. Then yesterday I've been trying to let go and I I know you don't mean to hurt me, but sometimes I wonder if things are helping at all. I do know I am speaking my mind more then I normally would in therapy.