Maybe the correct answer would be to tell her your thoughts and what your feelings are. In fact I'm sure it's correct. I have not found that worked well for me though. (multiple times.... I might ''do better'' now but I'm not sure. I'm not even sure the main ''problem'' was me.... rather than their inability or unwillingness to listen.

I wish I could be more helpful. I'm being honest.

Let us know how the appointment goes!