Hello, I have joined this forum because I was married for 17 years when my ex told me he wasn't in love with me anymore and that he wanted a divorce. We have one child together. I did everything I could to get him to change his mind, but as it turned out, he was falling in love with another woman and therefore didn't have anymore room for me. We are amicable to each other and are able to co-parent without heated arguments. The woman he left me for ended up not working, but now he has been dating a new woman he found online for the past 6 months. We have been divorced for only 1 1/2 years and I have no desire to meet/date anyone because my heart is still for him. But he has so obviously moved on and I just want to be able to let go. It's so hard especially because we talk and see each other because of our son. I guess what brought me here is that I don't understand how he found someone so special so soon. It makes me feel like I was a fool for so long. Anyway, I just don't want to cry everyday and I want to be focused on my happiness and my son. Thank you for reading.