I would probably give L unlimited chances...unless I found out she lied to me about something. Then I wouldn't know what I would do. And that's assuming we can work through whatever the rupture is. I believe we could so long as we remain honest with each other. We have commitments and agreements and routines. We have created a foundation for us to rely on. But honesty is our number one rule for both of us. That doesn't mean we don't have boundaries or limits or privacy. It does mean that whatever is said is the truth. Oh, and we don't make promises. Well, she's not allowed to. She can swear and/or state her intentions. I have made 2 promises? 1. I won't hurt myself until I talk to her first, otherwise I must go to the hospital if I can't wait for her. 2. No matter what happens, I agree to one last closure session. I can't just ghost her.

I don't know if I'd give T unlimited chances. Probably. Again though, honesty first.

I've only left one therapist on my own terms. Three my parents got rid of, one transferred jobs, one ditched me when I got sick for 2 weeks, and then ex-T abandoned me.