Is counter-transference normal? Like transference is normal? I mean, it just means feelings for another person, right? And it only becomes a problem when it gets in the way of the client's progress?

L says that ex-T's counter-transference got in the way and might be why she terminated me. And I know L has feelings for me, but I do not feel they get in the way. She has good boundaries and takes care of and is responsible for her own feelings.

So I'm just curious what it all means.