Hi I’m new to this forum and currently going through a seperation/divorce. I have been married for 7 years and am in my mid thirties, no kids. I am really scared and sad. I am the one who initiated the divorce, husband is a nice person but always put his friends and family first and has been gambling. Also never helped out with cooking or cleaning etc. Went to counselling and he couldn’t hold his part. Gambling continues even after I said I had enough. I am the responsible one, take care of everything. Im exhausted and feel under appreciated. I sometimes question if I’m making the right decision but I can’t live like this and it’s been up and down for a very long time. And I think what kept me in this relationship as immature as it sounds was to want to be a mother one day. I recently froze my own eggs although it doesn’t guarantee anything but thought it was a good idea. Sigh.