We had just watched the superbowl with my wife, my brother-in-law and his girlfriend. his daughters and my two sons ages 17, 15, 2 and three were in the house. We started arguing about the half time show and what made me so angry was that my brother-in-law girlfriend had an opinion that I didn't agree with and she would not let me complete a single counter thought.
when I was driving alone, I was expressing my feelings out loud, essentially going off on her without her there. anyways, I return and as soon as I walk in, she immediately starts talking again and I just go off on her, saying things like, do you know where you are, youre in my house, shut the **** up and respect me." I cannot believe I said things like that and I know better. my wife even told me before I blew up to drop it. I wish I listened,
I welcome all thoughts and suggestions.
Thank you for your time.
J