I feel like i dont understand what it is to have a clean, safe, happy home. Thats 3 different things. I get "safe" by paying a high rent in a town with good public transportation and other amenities. But that choice was kinda unconscious, and made geez 30-some years ago, altho i have re-made it a few times (moving away and back).

But clean, happy? Not really on the watsisnames list of 6 or 7 things. These things werent given to me, werent taught to me. Just like safe really wasnt. I feel like im trying to adjust to an alien environment. These suggestions might work for earthlings, but i aint from around here.