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Originally Posted by poshgirl
Understanding why she behaves as she does may help. Certainly, an explanation of what your therapist meant is overdue. Also, as hard as it seems, walking away from an overbearing parent may be the only solution.  |
I agree with this!
Understanding for me, is hugely important. My Mum is the way she is because she is a product of her environment and has never tried to change the course. However for me, I decided Im changing the course. And I have done.
I dont know about forgiving and whether its right for you or even the right time. But holding on to so much anger and hatred cannot be good for you.
I found a way through my anger and have accepted her the way she is and I know that she wont change. I have a relationship on my terms and this works for us.
I hope you find a way through, @
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