I am sorry this is taking place. How stressful

The one thing I know for sure that she cannot ask for restraining order if she is allowing him to visit in the house where she resides (even if she steps out when he is there) . It contradicts the whole concept of restraining order. Unfortunately it could be denied if that continues. She also shouldn’t be contacting him for any reasons. If she does, it would contradict the whole concept of her asking for RO. He could say “why restraining order? Why would she be afraid of me? She clearly isn’t. She went to live with her mom but she invites me over and calls me so we are just fine, your honor”.

Until court order stipulates how and where visitations need to take place, I do not believe there should be visitations as this isn’t a normal amicable divorce. Let the court decide. .